Tuesday, October 28, 2025
Man’s Search For Meaning
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Where did the day go?
6:30 am-7:30 am: woke up, ate breakfast-reviewed national/global news and sports.
7:30 am-to approximately 8 am: walked dogs.
8 am-9:30 am: assembled two high chairs (for our twin grandchildren).
9:30 am to approximately 11:30 am: almost finished assembling two cribs.
11:30 am to approximately noon: ate some lunch and checked for pool leak detection employee who was to get here at 11. Our dogs bark at most every person with or without an animal who walks by our house, so there were a lot of false alarms!
Noon-2 pm: Pool leak detection employee finds multiple pool leaks (unfortunately $$$). Finished assembling the cribs.
2 pm-2:45 pm: quick stops for bank, an amazon return for my wife, and gas.
2:45 pm-3:30 pm: Power Nap 😏.
3:30 pm-3:45 pm: checked hot tub chemicals, changed filter.
3:45 pm-4:05 pm: walked dogs again.
4:05 pm-now: typing this blog entry.
Left to do for today:
Feed dogs.
Shave, shower, dress.
4:45 pm: head to weekly poker game with some buds (takes 30-45 minutes due to rush-hour traffic).
5:30 pm-9:30 pm: Poker.
9:30 pm-10 pm: drive home.
10:05 pm-hope my wife is awake to share if I won tonight, or brush teeth quietly and let her stay asleep if I did not 😏.
10 pm-11 pm: hit the sack.
My wife often asks what I did today and sometimes I fail to completely review everything.
I’m completely confident, however, that she will consider this TMI (if she reads)!
Thursday, October 16, 2025
My last tent
Just back from a hiking/back-pack trip with my son on the Appalachian Trail.
It was the most physically challenging thing I’ve done as an adult for years, and I even skipped one 6-mile hike from and back to our base camp (that my son noted was the most challenging of all).
The trails chosen were “only” rated as moderately difficult.
But between the 5-mile ascents/descents, uneven terrain, and carrying 40+ pounds of gear and food to set up our base camp on Shinning Rock, it was clear early on that my training prior was inadequate.
It was in the mid-to-high 30s and low 40s through the night and early am.
Fire-pits weren’t permitted.
Sunset was about 730 pm each day, and it remained dark until sunrise at approximately 7:30 am.
Trying to not urinate for the 12 hours wasn’t possible.
However, I significantly delayed venturing out from our two person tent the first night because 1). I was too scared of the dark and 2). I wasn’t even sure I could get up to stand!
It was also “interesting” trying to dig 6-inch holes in nearly frozen ground to poop each day.
I have nothing but respect for those that have done much longer portions of, or even completed, the Appy Trail.
Honestly, it was an adventure that I was glad to see end, but my son and I shared many great laughs/discussions along the way, and it will definitely be a life-long memory.
I plan to do some hikes in the future, but only from and back to my home, or a lodge.
It’s been years since I did any tent camping.
It won’t be years until I do again.
I won’t be doing it again 😂.
Friday, October 10, 2025
My status pen and some smiles
My wife is changing jobs, within the same organization next week, and her current team threw her a “going away” party.
She showed me a gift from her team.
It was a Montblanc pen.
It caused me to, almost immediately, reminisce and smile.
Back in the 80s, Montblanc pens seemed to be in most every male physicians top shirt pocket.
I bought one, I’m sure, because I was trying to “keep up with the Joneses.”
Montblanc pens were comfortable and wrote smoothly; favorable attributes in a time when an incredible amount of writing was required for documentation (electronic medical records (EMRs) did not become significantly utilized until the mid-to-late 2000s).
But truthfully, I rarely used mine because I always thought the refill cartridges were too expensive (and that recollection is what initially made me smile)!
Obviously, we don’t use pens nearly to the same degree anymore, so the same ink cartridge has been in my Montblanc pen for years and I prefer Gelly Roll pens (which appeared around 1988) now, when a need to write arises.
But for some reason, I felt a strong need to reach into my fancy-pen stash to show my wife my status pen from the 1980s, when she showed me her Montblanc (she didn’t know I owned one).
But after, when I thought about how ridiculous that need to “keep up with the Joneses” was, it made me smile again.
Tuesday, October 7, 2025
From congratulations to are you bored yet?
Friday, October 3, 2025
5/12th of my gap year?
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